April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month. With my personal experiences with assault and my current internship at my local Advocacy Center, this time has dredged up and in turn, helped me process a lot of feelings. I know this much: In the wake of trauma there is a community, there is healing, there is life.
Read MoreIn Mammalian Diving Reflex’s All the Sex I’ve Ever Had, the audience goes beyond acceptance and into a world of connectivity, vulnerability, intimacy, and sex. Six experienced and brave Chicagoans over the age of sixty-five invite an audience to share a vulnerable, safe space as they detail their most intimate, prosperous, and difficult times through stories of their sex lives.
Read MoreCollege is a time for exploration, especially when it comes to dating…and living with roommates for the first time. We know how challenging it can be to have “the talk” with people you share a room with. Here’s how to bring someone home while keeping the comforts and preferences of your roomies in mind.
Read MoreEar play often finds itself the butt of endless kink-related jokes. Some people think it’s totally hot, others are a bit more cautious. I’m here to tell you all, a little aural action goes a long way.
Read MoreWe’ve all heard the saying: time heals all wounds. But can love? Healing is something that we are taught has to be done alone, but New York City’s twenty-somethings would have to disagree.
Read MoreLet’s take a look at various shows that I have seen which represent sex in an honest and relatable way. But what makes these sex scenes so realistic? They address the topics of consent, communication, and inclusivity.
Read MoreBody hair – although completely natural on women’s bodies – has been a symbol of femininity for decades now. This is true still with women’s pubic hair and the infamous bush. Throughout the years, the bush has been preferred, accepted, and at other times scorned. By exploring society’s acceptance (or refusal) of body hair on women, we can analyze how women are expected to look and behave to be seen as feminine.
Along with the rise of Euphoria is coming the slow, but long over-due, appreciation for prior porn stars turned Hollywood stars. Chloe Cherry is just another of the latest stars to turn their earlier acting careers into newer and bigger brands for themselves, much like Julia Fox, Mia Khalifa, Cardi B, and many more before. But what is it that initiated this destigmatization of sex workers? What is opening up the door for a larger cultural change?
Read MoreWhen you’ve been single all your life, the concept of romantic intimacy can build up into something more frightening and daunting than you ever imagined it being. Attempting to navigate the world of romance and dating as a forever single person can feel like trying to speak a foreign language. However, in spite of all the fear and uncertainty, sometimes it's necessary–if it’s desired–to step out into the great unknown. It’s necessary to permit yourself to try and do the scariest thing imaginable: to allow yourself to be known.
It’s more than understandable if your mind is focused on other things than sex these days. Taking a break from physical intimacy, whether it’s intentional or not, should never be seen as a failure because there are plenty of other ways to connect with your partner. Sometimes, just being the reason they laugh or let go may even bring you closer than being skin-to-skin.
Read MoreSometimes we find ourselves staying in less than satisfactory and even toxic relationships for fear of being alone when they end. Whether that fear is rooted in past trauma, societal pressures or a need for physical affirmation, settling for a love that does not fulfill you isn’t fair to you or your partner, and can be detrimental to future relationships.
Read MoreThis article is a little guide on the things to take into account when having a threesome. Whether it be on talking, setting boundaries or the setting - I hope that these tips will help people feel more at ease when planning on having a threesome. And remember to have fun.
Wanking! You do it, your neighbours do it, but unless you’re in an amateur porn video, you probably don’t want the whole apartment block to hear it. Here’s how to stifle your power tool of a vibrator.
Read MoreOne of the largest stigmas surrounding women’s sexual health is the idea that “tight” vaginas equate to good sex. “Tight” is a myth, based on patriarchal standards. In particular, ones that primarily value male pleasure.
Read MoreMost of the time sizing alone can be a daunting task when trying to find the right underwear. However, between all the different styles, shapes, and materials it’s just downright overwhelming. In order to help you feel better about and in your skin, Cora Harrington’s book is an essential guide to understanding the do’s and don’ts of lingerie. I also include my personal shopping preferences for any and everybody to find the right intimates at the right price.
From weight gain to cystic acne to depression, pregnancy sometimes seems like a better route than birth control. Whether it’s the pill, the patch, the IUD, or any other form of internal contraception, the side effects have always turned me off, and I’m not the only one. Birth control can be a scary thing to navigate, especially when the internet shows you just how scary it can be.
Spotify Wrapped is one of the most anticipated days of the year. Every December, we get a glimpse into the year’s most popular sexual songs and artists. Many of us may curate our own playlists based on these recommendations. Here are some of my basic necessities to make the best sex playlist.
Noticing a not-so-sexy libido slump? Here are some hot tips and tricks to kick up your sex drive, from setting the mood to amping up your self-confidence.
In an era of intense female empowerment and subsequent sexual liberation, we don’t talk about celibacy enough. Rather than an oppressive practice meant to shame women for being the sexual creatures that they are, it has become a key tool by young people to get a better grip on their lives. After all, not everything is about sex.
True to the motto: through the backdoor, this article functions as a complete beginner’s guide on pegging. Whether you are the pegger or the pegee or just someone that might be interested in light pegging in the future, this piece tells you everything you need to know about making sweet love to someone’s booty. Get ready to receive tips, tricks, and techniques that will prepare you and your partner for some backend fun.
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